Those whose idea of ‘commentary’ oscillates between calling someone “a legend” or “worse than Hitler”, based solely on whether his opinion tallies with theirs, should click away now.
I come from an era where ‘nuance’ is not merely the name of a nightclub, however, and where black and white are frequently separated by numerous shades of grey.
So I’m not steaming in with Piers Morgan over Simone Biles’ withdrawal from the Olympic gymnastics team event, but nor am I holding hands and tossing bouquets with those on the more gentle side of the debate.
Because if there’s one thing you eventually pick up on if you live life long enough, it’s that for all the hot air expended at opposite ends of an argument, the truth often resides somewhere in the middle.
I follow neither gymnastics nor women’s tennis, so when Ms. Biles removes herself from competition, as Naomi Osaka did from the French tennis Open two months ago — both citing mental health reasons — I would be entering the realms of pure speculation were I to take their decisions at anything other than face value.
I find it hard to believe that Osaka would walk lightly away from a solid shot at landing one of her sport’s marquee events, and while I wasn’t overly sold on Biles’ body language when she explained her withdrawal, I do understand that troubled people are often masters at hiding the fact.
This post is not about them. It is about a potential pitfall in this sporting evolution and about the spurious hot air it’s engendering in the meantime.
First up, a newsflash. Biles and Osaka have been neither “brave” nor “heroic”. They have simply shown the kind of resolve that the least of us must show more than once in our lives if that life is not to be a car crash.
They recognised they had a problem and that they needed time to sort it out, so they stepped away. That was neither courage nor cowardice, but fortitude. Somewhere in the middle.
Alas, in our frantic efforts to “just be kind”, too often these days we’re just being silly. This was the BBC’s Samantha Quek on Biles’ commendable decision not to hide after pulling out.
“She got her tracksuit back on, she got out there and she stood and clapped on her teammates…to me, that is a champion.”
To me, that is a statement that makes no sense whatsoever. Champions are the ones with their tracksuits off, who get out there and win stuff. Biles is entitled to a modicum of sympathy and understanding but she does not get to have reality warped on her behalf.
Unfortunately, she may not have been above doing a little warping herself by the sound of it. Listen to this interview from the 1:02 mark, especially the closing segment:
“It’s okay sometimes to…sit out the big competitions, to focus on yourself, because it shows how strong of a competitor and person that you really are…rather than just battle through it.”
Hark at the slightly dismissive tone with which those last six words are spoken. As if “just” battling through were the inferior option now; something lesser athletes do.
I can remember the stand-up comedian Ben Elton, thirty years ago, bewailing a world in which bad is so often represented as good and good as bad. In view of where we’ve gone since, I wonder if he dares leave the house these days.
In one area, however, Samantha Quek was quite correct. It is long overdue for mental health to be afforded the same credibility as physical health, particularly now, when sports personalities face not just trial by media but trial by social media. The same goldfish bowl, but beneath a much larger spotlight, and with infinitely more faces pressed against the glass; some of them distinctly unsavoury.
That parity in the health of body and mind, however, must be applied consistently. Which means that when athletes withdraw from competition citing mental health issues, they cannot be outraged when the media politely asks to see a doctor’s note.
Because for as long as there have been physical ailments, there have been those who milk them. Ask anyone in the workplace and most will be able to recall a colleague at some point in their careers who was heading for the exit at the merest hint of a sniffle or headache.
If you seriously think that there will never be an athlete in the future who uses mental health as a smokescreen for bruised ego or a disinclination to take the rough with the smooth, then I have a bridge over the Tyne that I’d like to sell you.
And because of the problems that those frauds will create for those with genuine mental health concerns, there can be no unquestioning free pass for anyone. Just as you can’t be off for more than a couple of days without your boss asking to see a sick note.
Luckily, I believe the media can play a key role in this filtering process. When a sportsperson pulls out of an event because of mental health issues, I suggest the press gives itself 48 hours to talk about it — which is important — and then the competitor concerned gets full radio silence until he or she decides to come back. Media focus switches exclusively to the grinders still out there, giving it everything they have, through thick and thin.
If you have a genuine mental health issue, this media holiday will be manna from heaven. You get to step out of the goldfish bowl and work on your problems, free of prying eyes and repetitive questions for as long as you choose.
If you’re just gaming the system, on the other hand… Well, let’s just say that if one or two athletes respond to becoming their sports’ forgotten people by returning to the spotlight with an alacrity suggesting a recovery of New Testament proportions, we shouldn’t be too surprised.
Human nature can be a mental health issue all of its own.