In just a matter of days, my household has seen quite the transformation.
Younger Son, a mad-keen golfer, has been greatly tickled by my view that the Ryder Cup is the most embarrassing freak-show in professional sport.
Embarrassing because of the mountainous fall from grace that this biennial ‘handbags’ squabble has come to represent.
The Ryder Cup is now golf’s version of a week in Magaluf. People with respectable jobs put all that on hold for seven days while setting new personal bests in the kind of behaviour they wouldn’t want their grandmothers to see.
We’ve heard the visiting European team booed to high heaven at Whistling Straits; we’ve seen caddies grab their 15 minutes of fame in the mandatory ‘Ryder Cup-themed petulant spat’ and we have watched Brooks Koepka and some tuppeny journeyman called Daniel Berger swearing at rules officials and making no attempt to hide it.
All the while whooped on by the kind of spectators who now have this sport in their grip like a severe case of poison ivy. If you haven’t picked up on the growing trend of unsavoury interaction between professional golfers and their public, you haven’t been paying attention.
In years gone by, of course, we could console ourselves with the thought that all this guff stops when the cup is handed to the winning captain, and professional golf rediscovers its sanity for another two years.
I’m not sure we have that luxury any more. The Ryder Cup is no longer an aberration. It is now the norm in what is a looming perfect storm at the apex of the sport.
On one side of the ropes, you have increasingly unprepossessing young golfers with all the talent in the world and barely a personality between them. On the other side, a weekly convention of village idiots, lured in not so much by golf as by the irresistible cocktail of beer and television cameras.
(And please don’t tell me “Yes, but that’s just Americans.” To do so ignores one of the biggest cultural cliches of the last 50 years. What starts in America ends up over here. If you’re in the habit of saying “snuck”, you prove my point.)
And presiding over it all, yet another set of blinkered sporting administrators whose only criterion of a job well done is how much money they raise.
I doubt Koepka and Berger will receive so much as a stern glance for their behaviour from the game’s would-be custodians. Why should they? Those same custodians have sat back and done nothing while ball and club technology reduce even the best golf courses on the planet to an irrelevance. On their watch, what should be an even contest between man and terrain has become Tyson Fury vs Mary Berry.
Those same custodians apparently have no problem with spectators bellowing routine inanities when players tee off. “GET IN THE HOLE!!!!!” on a par five being the least ridiculous of them.
Those same custodians somehow convinced themselves that nothing screams “classy” quite like something called the Waste Management Phoenix Open. Although given the s***-show that professional golf is fast becoming, maybe they deserve some credit for foresight.
Koepka’s outburst at rules officials is the most ominous portent. No-one’s under any illusions that professional golfers converse like choirboys when things aren’t going their way but until recently, they have at least kept it down, mindful that it’s one of the niceties that their sport demands.
Don’t be surprised if that’s gone now. The brat Koepka’s entitlement trumped all last Saturday and many of his peers will take their cue from that.
Golf, though, needs to remain a cut above other sports when it comes to the way its competitors conduct themselves, even under the fiercest pressure.
It doesn’t have the immediate visual drama of football – whatever the code – with which to sell itself. Being able to watch grown men and women play it without feeling embarrassed for them the way you so often do in a football stadium; that was one of its compensations.
It could be played good and hard by its finest exponents; there might be meaningul glares aplenty and little love lost out there on the links, but they all knew there was a standard to be observed and heaven help anyone who decided it was optional.
Let other games go to hell in the proverbial handcart; there was always golf to remind you that civilisation is still out there somewhere. At the amateur level nowadays, people from all walks of life play it for that very reason.
If, in its shop window, however, golf becomes just another sport, I believe it has some hard days ahead in the marketplace.
Younger Son is 22. The target demographic. Bullish and worldly, he also likes nothing more than sending up his father’s ‘old-fashioned values’. So I was as much surprised as saddened when he announced that he, too, on reflection, has probably observed his last Ryder Cup.
“I’m actually pleased Arnold Palmer’s dead,” he told me. “The thought of him having to watch that crap…”